
In a recent post, I wrote that the nomadic lifestyle is one of production and creativity. I’ve been thinking about this, and I’d like to give these qualities a higher priority in my life. Towards this end, one of the things I’ve decided to do is to stop saving money.
What will this look like
When I say I’m going to stop saving money, I don’t mean I’m going to stop putting money into my savings account or that I’m going to spend recklessly. Here are some of the specific things I’m not going to do:
- Open a menu and immediately look at prices
- Walk back and forth between shops doing price comparisons
- Bicker with my husband about minor purchases
- Opt for one product over another just because I have a coupon
- Waste time or energy to avoid paying small “convenience fees”
Many of the things on the list add stress and negative energy to my life, and they waste time. I don’t enjoy doing them, so I’ve decided to stop. From now on, I’m not going to be actively looking for ways to save money in my daily life.
What will happen if I stop saving money?
Will my spending habits change if I stop making a conscious effort to save money? Will I suddenly start spending hundreds of dollars I can’t afford? I seriously doubt it. My lifestyle is simple, and most of the things I enjoy don’t cost any money.
- I don’t own a car.
- I don’t have credit card debt.
- I rarely go to the movies.
- I don’t buy meat.
- I don’t buy junk food or ready-made meals.
Steve Olson wrote an interesting post about saving and making money. He says:
“We all want more money for one reason… It gives us freedom to pursue our goals, to travel, to grow, and to create the life of our dreams.
If you focus all your attention and energy on saving money, you aren’t focusing on the solution. You are focusing on the problem. The solution is creating wealth. To create wealth, you need income and you need to grow it. So if you’re focused on coupons and light bulbs you aren’t focused on the long term. You’re focused on a band-aid fix.”
Steve’s point about the band-aid fix really resonates with me. Since I don’t earn a lot of money in the first place, focusing on saving what I do have isn’t going to drastically transform my financial situation. Instead, I’d like to invite financial wealth and abundance into my life.
If I don’t try to save money, how will I make financial decisions?
From now on, I’m going to practice what I call value-driven spending. With value-driven spending, there are only two points to consider when making a financial decision.
- If something doesn’t add value to my life, I won’t buy it.
- If I think the item is poor value for the money, I won’t buy it.
But what happens if I want to buy something that is good value in every way, but I literally can’t afford it? Won’t I go into debt? Nope–because I plan on continuing to follow this key guideline:
Don’t spend money you don’t have.
I use credit cards and debit cards all the time, but I rarely purchase things without having the cash sitting my account. In the past, the only exceptions have been large-ticket or time-sensitive items. For example, about six months ago I paid $2500 for a visa application so that I could remain in Australia with my husband. We were living very close to our means at the time and had no savings, but were confident that we’d be able to pay off the credit card balance within a month or so. Since then, we’ve built up our savings, so I don’t anticipate having to use a credit card again in that way.
If you currently have a lot of credit card debt, then all the money you’re spending is money you don’t have. That’s a tough spot to be in. My advice is to set up a monthly automatic transfer to your credit card balance, and pay yourself a fair living wage out of what’s left over. When you run out of money that month, don’t use your credit card. Every time you’re tempted to do so, ask yourself, “Am I willing to postpone my financial freedom by X days/months in order to possess this item?”
The joy of making money
I have to admit, saving money does feel good occasionally. However, the feeling is short-lived. Most importantly, saving comes to a natural end. Once I’ve cut all the corners I can, there’s no forward movement. It’s like setting up a line of dominoes and knocking them down. Once the last domino hits the ground, it’s over.
By contrast, making money generates greater positive emotion, and the emotion itself is much longer-lived. Making even a small amount of money motivates me to make more, especially when I’m trying out a new income stream. Unlike saving money, there’s no limit to the amount of money a person can make. You never get to a point where you think, “Well, that’s it–I can’t possibly make any more money.” Making money is like an infinite line of dominos.
My predictions
Here’s what I think will happen if I stop focusing on saving:
- I’ll be able to direct the energy that I previously put into saving towards making money instead
- My decisions won’t be driven by financial concerns
- I’ll be able to follow my dreams and achieve my full potential more easily
- I’ll become more relaxed and cheerful
- I’ll have the means to help those who need money
- I’ll be able to support others in their quest for financial independence
I’m sure there will be other results that I can’t even predict right now. I’m excited about this shift in mindset and I’m open to the possibilities. Whatever happens, it will be interesting to experience the results. I’ll document our journey along the way. Hopefully, we won’t end up in a cardboard box on the side of the road.
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I wish you the best on you path to abundance. Experience and common sense tells me that when I’m focused on creativity, and creating, value, and producing income, I simply make more money. When I focus on pinching every penny, I realize I’m clinging. Clinging to a ship that feel like it’s sinking. We are made to grow not shrink. Thanks so much for the link!
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antonia Reply:
June 27th, 2010 at 12:50 am
Thanks, Steve!
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This is a great article. I love the way you put it all together and it is very timely for me right now.
thank you!
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antonia Reply:
June 27th, 2010 at 1:56 pm
Hi Teresa! Thanks for stopping by. See you in the BM forums.
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I want to save. I really do. I get to about $1000 then something happens or I pay normal living expenses (which I’ve cut to the bone- nothing else to cut)… then I’m down to $600 or 700… then in 2-4 weeks im at $1000 again… repeat every month or so….
I can’t save beyond the $1000, despite working two jobs for 4+ years. It’s VERY frustrating. Everything is so expensive, I make so little… Can’t make any headway on saving….
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antonia Reply:
July 1st, 2010 at 4:13 pm
I can see why you’d feel frustrated. Four years is a long time to be working two jobs only to make ends meet. Maybe it’s time to rethink your long-term strategy. My post describes one approach, but there are dozens of other things you could try.
For example:
- move to a location with a lower cost of living
- ask for a promotion or a raise
- sell some stuff
- housesit for a few months to save on rent
Just remember, you are the one in charge of your financial decisions. If what you’re doing isn’t working, try something different. Good luck!
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Hmmmm….. deep! I’m still gonna still save money.
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antonia Reply:
July 1st, 2010 at 4:14 pm
Nothing wrong with saving if you’re happy with it! Thanks for stopping by
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I liked this post. Personally, I find clipping and organizing coupons very relaxing. I also have a rule against buying anything I wouldn’t have bought without the coupon. As a result my household and grocery bills are very low.
In some aspects I follow your advice. I treat myself to a massage, facial and a really fine meal at least once a month. The cost still matters somewhat (I have found ways to enjoy these things at a discount) , but the experience is a good one.
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antonia Reply:
July 2nd, 2010 at 6:32 pm
Good point about being able to enjoy luxuries at a discount. Sometimes when we’re focused on saving, the temptation is to cut out every pleasure, but if you look around you can often find massages etc for ridiculously good prices.
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I really enjoyed this article, as someone who has lived on volunteer stipends for the past 3 years (AmeriCorps, Peace Corps) and am slowly entering the “salary world”. I’ve been reading books about financial planning but also about living a happy life based on your own interests, and this article really resonated. I think that when it comes down to it, “living within your means” is the simplest and best piece of advice. I am trying to start good financial habits now but still remain true to my own passions and interests. I want to strike a happy medium between avoiding the financial mistakes of older generations (no savings etc) vs becoming too obsessed with counting every dollar and being more interested in the idea of “saving” rather focusing on the goal or solution. So I guess I’m in the middle – I want to keep saving , but I have concrete goals in mind (I have funds setup for a trip next year [no destination picked out, but I'm still setting the money aside cause I know I'll get itchy feet by then], and also hoping to go to the 2012 Olympics, and being able to have some little luxuries that would make me really happy (horse back riding lessons). I don’t want to just put money away and at the end of my life wonder why I never had any fun. I do agree with the part in your article that implies that sometimes we ADD more stress to our lives by seeking out tiny ways to save money, and I agree. I’ve started to adopt a policy that if something adds stress to my life, I’m not going to do it, or I will pay the $1 more to avoid it… If I’ve decided to treat myself to a meal out, then I am not going to waver between the $15 entree and the $17 entree. However, I am determined to avoid credit cards and debt.
I’m pretty good about compromising (“I went out for dinner last week, so I’m not going to have cocktails this week,” or whatever) but I do not keep a running commentary. If there is something that I really, really want, then I treat myself and make compromises in other areas so that I am always living within my means.
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antonia Reply:
July 9th, 2010 at 6:38 pm
I tried to keep a running commentary as you call it several times, and that just didn’t work for me because my spending patterns are so inconsistent. One month I might spend $2000 on air travel but nearly nothing on food, another month I might go out more than usual…it just depends. I like your method of treating yourself but making compromises in other areas. As you say, having something to save FOR is a huge motivation. Good luck with your goals!
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I do believe that there comes a point when obsessing over minor savings has diminishing returns – your article definitely recognizes that. There comes a point where saving the 35 cent coupon just isn’t worth the time it took you to clip it! And after you’ve set your financial foundation with an emergency fund and cut out the credit card debt, I agree that there’s no need to stress yourself over the small stuff. Thanks!
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